December 21st, 2009 for
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There are not small the relations that break because one of the two ends up by making a such scene of jealousy that other does not bear and ends up by leaving the first one with the word in the mouth, shouting, cursing and … without commitment again.
If you feel that the sickly jealousy or without reason there end up by being an obstacle in your relation and prevent you from developing a piece of news, perhaps be a moment that you locate the root of that feeling. The way in how do you react to the things has been determined in your brain since you were very small and your social experiences have formed your character. Which of these reasons do they provoke that you are a jealous one?
1. Past experiences. Your last fiancée cheated you and you have been with the guard in high place since then.
2. Projection. You are a player. You cheat the women and assume that they will do the same with you.
3. You take alcohol or consume drugs. The poisonous substances have sometimes this collateral effect, of paranoiac drives you crazy.
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November 17th, 2008 for
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Many persons need to put into practice a ritual (be already to buy impulsively, to drink or to say lies) that avoids or reduces the anxiety that provokes an obsession often secret in the subconscious.
I impel 1: To lie
Most of the persons who lie do it to seem nicer and competent, according to a study of the University of Massachussets (USA). The same study also revealed that, in the course of a conversation of 10 minutes, 60 % of the persons lies at least once. “Everybody wants to sell well: in the work interviews, before a possible conquest, etc. But, eye, because once you enter this game of being valued by what you show and not by what you are, it is easy that you end up by confusing reality with fiction”, warns Patricia Ramírez, clinical psychologist of Granada.
It takes the control
It reflects: you are replacing solid values as the sincerity and the effort of personal overcoming with a false image of you yourself. Also, have for insurance that the persons to that you release the trolas will end up discovering you and will end up by moving away from you for feeling betrayed. If you do not want to finish more only than the one, strain for finding the motive of your conduct (low self-esteem, lacking in social skills?) and he asks a specialist for help.
I impel 2: to buy
“Like all the addictions, the enormous love for going shopping it has his origin in the need to refill some emotional gap. In this concrete case, the normal thing is that the person begins to buy clothes, jewels or accessories to turn out to be himself better. Once satisfied this one? need?, does the brain liberate endorfinas (the calls? hormones of the pleasure?), what helps to fall down in the addiction”, there exhibits Zoraida Rodríguez, Andalusian clinical psychologist.
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October 20th, 2008 for
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Many men devote themselves to exercise most of his muscles good meets and to become stronger, but it is not necessary to forget to exercise also the brain. There is a variety of exercises and activities that could work successfully. The brain has five big cognitive functions: the memory, the attention, the language, the skills visual space, and the executive function. In addition to the tasks that it can realize every day to exercise the mind, there are a lot of games online to train your brain and to have it always agile and healthy.
The challenge, the stimulation is important and to exercise really five areas to remain mentally strong. Here I leave to them 5 exercises that they can realize every day to help to the brain.
Memory
The Memory redeems a crucial role in all the cognitive activities, it includes the reading, the reasoning and the mental calculation. Several types of memory exist in the work of the brain. The memory is one of the cognitive skills that it is possible to notice more easily when they begin to fail. To support a good memory, it is necessary to qualify it, and it can be easier than you think. To listen to music is not only agreeable, this can help us very much to remember, listens to new songs and memorizes the letter, this will do that the acetilcolina level increases, the chemical substance that helps to construct the brain, and improve his memory skills. I propose to you a challenge that will make exercise your mind, take a shower or dress in the darkness, brush the teeth with the opposite hand that you usually use. These challenges it will help to create new associations between the different connections neuronales of the brain.
Attention
The attention is necessary in almost all the daily tasks. Good attention allows you to support the concentration in spite of the noise and the distractions and to concentrate on several activities simultaneously. We can improve our attention for a simple change in our routines. To change his route to the work or to reorganize your office - this change of habit will make us pay attention again. As we age, our attention can diminish, what converts us in more capable to the distraction and less efficient in the multitask. By means of the activities combination like listening to an audio I free while we trot or to do calculations in his head, it will help us every day to support and improve our attention.
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September 1st, 2008 for
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The shyness is one of the most common symptoms in the adolescence but also it it can be along the life. If you are shy with the women it is convenient for you to read this article.
At first almost all the shy persons prove to be extroverts with his friends and relatives but only earlier the females change his behavior of an extreme way. This has diverse causes.
The low self-esteem is fundamental. A little of optimism on one himself and to love more sound two steps that it is necessary to give without doubting it at the time of trying to speak with a girl and conquer our fear.
The physical aspect can be another big barrier. But for that the solution exists of going to the gymnasium, dieting … etc. Everything has solution and thinks that not they all like the same type of man.
The intellectual level does not seem to influence but in the long run it influences, and very much, the personal relations. A person of high intellectual level feels more safe because he knows that he can speak about any topic without fear of being wrong. That's why he reads more, find out and try to be on the day of what happens.
The social skills. Depending on the work that we always have it will influence of a way or of other one in beginning a conversation. If you are used to treating with many people that it will facilitate the enough way to you.
These advices can serve to you to avoid this fear or panic to be spoken with the woman of our sleep. Nobody eats up anybody, so there passes partner and luck.
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March 12th, 2008 for
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Are you a man and the "viejazo" seized you? Then, this note is for you …
If you have between the 38 and 44 years of age and are you of the masculine sex of that time of course one day on having got up suddenly he begins feeling confused and nothing satisfies him.
It sees his couple like a strange person, becomes irritable, feels dissatisfaction with his personal life and with his work, it was looking like the children that they go on to the second term, fortunately many people keep on being persons in charge with the children, nevertheless a big number of men stops expiring with the part of provider, there is alienation of the couple, and of the children, they turn the sight towards something but there is no any answer, the work has little importance, all the effort does not matter it has realized to reach the standard of living up to this moment.
The problems with the couple are on the increase, as well as the fights without well-taken cause, the claims, the absence of communication, and if there are precedents of a relation of weak couple also it can be an explosive fortress for a separation.
The second return is frequent in this age, that is to say the second couple appears and the same one could go so far as to be consolidated appearing the second family. the number of divorces in more frequent in this age, regrettably the problems also is major, since the children suffer the consequence and complications of this situation.
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